Odd times.

Recent farmer’s market + lunch date.

I need activity dates! Walking/movement stimulates the mind.

Meal encounters are soooo boring.

The guy called me “thick”, said I had a big head, and called me a “dumb white guy” several times.

Naturally, when the bill came, I ignored it.


I’m not going to pay for the pleasure of being insulted.


A fake date today.

After brunch I offered to drive him back to his car.

I’m taking a breather from dating and can do that sort of thing honestly.

In the past, a drive from one car to the next invariably turned into a rabid make-out session.

But since I’m not currently dating or hooking up or anything much, I can pivot away, return to my car and drive away like a normal human being.